The Flingeran Center

April 15, 2008

Overcome fears

Filed under: Psychology Center — @ 5:22 pm

Fear is natural defensive mechanism in a human body, and is
provided as a protective mechanism to counter unexpected
dangerous situations or a perceived threat of injury. Fear is
also a tool for us to get ready well in advance to overcome
certain scenarios, which requires a solid defense. If confronted
with a danger, we will try to avoid the cause of danger itself,
while if we are given a choice of performing something that is
potentially harmful; we will invariably avoid that potentially
dangerous situation. In some cases, fear is considered very
desirable for human psyche, but in other extreme cases, fear
factor may overpower us to such an extent that, we tend to live
permanently with a nagging fear. In such instances, managing the
fear factor in our psyche becomes very difficult and sometimes
even unmanageable. Overcoming fears is not as easy as it
perceived to be because the very idea of fear becomes scary or
frightening to many people.

Just consider this curious fact: it is estimated that fear can
affect as high as 60% of the people in the world. Fear can make
people nervous and scary; people tend to get fear of all things
which are mostly imaginary. People are frightened of ghosts,
failure, success, people, animals, or anything that seem very
frightening. People are frightened to appear on a public stage
or if they are assigned to give a public lecture. People do get
afraid of exams, tests and interviews or even talking to people.
It is difficult to define the shape or form of fear, its kind
and occurrence. While many external stimuli may make us fearful
of some things or events, fear is also a symptom of serious
mental illness, as in the case of chronic schizophrenia.
Overcoming fears is an ultimate challenge to us as well as
medical professionals.

There are several kinds of fears, out of which some are
completely normal and rational. On the other hand there are
other types of fear which are abnormal and needs treatment to
overcome those fears. While the fear arising due to the factor
of physical harm is perfect, fear of looking foolish in the eyes
of others and being made fun because of it, is probably a sign
of negative personal trait. There are several phobias and
symptoms which are often very hard to get rid of due to their
association with our psyche itself. Normal fear is temporary and
usually fizzles out, once we known that we have passed through
the dangerous phase of fear.

Overcoming fears arising out natural reasons is easy, as the
person will come out of it all by himself. In such cases, people
can learn to overcome the natural fear, provided someone shows
them, that there is absolutely nothing to fear in the given
situation.You can overcome fears by building confidence in your
capability to perform such a task. That is usually performed by
carrying out something difficult or presumably dangerous and
observing that the final consequences of failure are not that
bad or that the chances of failure are very remote.The ultimate
benefit of overcoming fears is that you feel proud about your
achievement and about your abilities to repeat it again.

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